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In recent days, weeks and months, I've found myself looking at life with a completely new outlook. I've not only simplified my life in terms of clothing, belongings but also in terms of the things that I let swamp my mind and plague my thoughts. So, today I wanted to bring to you something extremely simple. The simple ways that I've been able to shift my mind and manage the different things that life has thrown my way. So, without the need to make such a simple post longer, please find below the list of 10 things that I've kept at the forefront of my mind and found to encourage me to not take everything so personally. Enjoy!

1. There is always a reason for everything.

2. Actions speak louder than words.

3. Remember that at the end of the day, you are always alone.

4. People usually only contact you when they want/need something from you.

5. Everything can be achieved if you think of it. Let it manifest and begin taking the steps necessary to achieve and exceed.

6. Everything is temporary.

7. You are only as good as the people you surround yourself with.

8. Always keep your best interests in mind.

9. Remember that happiness is always from within. You should never rely on anyone to make you happy.

10. Never be angry with another person simply because they do not act in the way you expected them to. That is your fault for putting expectations on them.

I hope you enjoyed reading, and I hope that at least one of these tips stays with you. Even if it is only for today.

Millie

What I was listening to whilst making this post

Chris Brown - Sweet Love

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Concrete is the main building material in this beach home in Tamarama, Sydney. And despite concrete not being a frequently used material in seaside homes, it works amazingly well with the subtle colours and views of the ocean. The calming and relaxing wood and brown tones help even out the harshness of the chosen materials, as well as the featured curves and crashing waves from the sea. 

Another reason why concrete was a perfect choice was due to its properties and ability to withstand the harsh seaside weather, with all its salt, humidity and wind. Despite its usual avoidance, concrete was a perfect choice.

Millie x

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On Thursday, I had to run a few errands in Birmingham, and once I was done I fancied sitting down and actually having time to my self. So where better to relax than in a coffee shop?

I ordered my usual (croissant & green tea), and I just gave myself time to actually sit and enjoy my current favourite book ('A Monk's Guide to a Clean House and Mind' - Shoukei Matsumoto). The main reason why I found that my time at the cafe was well spent, was through being alone. There's nothing wrong with a bit of healthy solitude, as it gives you time to actually relax and take in your surroundings, clear your mind and just breathe.

Something, I 100% will be doing again in the future!

Millie xx

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CASPA - The End of The World

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So as not many of you may know, but I recently turned 20 last month, and I must say... It's very weird not being able to say '~teen' as an answer whenever someone asks me for my age. But its also worrying because according to society, in the next 10 years, I'm supposed to have my life planned out, get the job for life, worry about finances, all whilst thinking about creating and maintaining a family. Let's just say, the only thing on that list I can say yes to is the job aspect, and even that is worrying to say. 

I've seen many a post when people list off the things that they wish they'd known before hitting a specific age milestone, and I've always wanted to be apart of that crowd (not that I'm being a sheep or anything). I just want to provide anyone younger than me with the knowledge that I have gathered over the years, and for anyone older than me just to receive a reminder that everything is ok!

My 5 things that turning 20 has taught me:

1. Me-time is not selfish-time

By this alone, I mean that taking the time out to focus on yourself and make sure that you're feeling happy and aren't in the middle of trying to make everyone else happy. No. Instead, it's 100% ok to take some time out to yourself and be your own motivational speaker in order to keep yourself going.

2. Leave the hate behind

There is no better place for hatred than in the past as it does nothing for you or anyone. All it is good for is hindering you and holding you back, rather than letting you get to wherever it is that you need/want to go. Rather than disliking or hating on people that have nothing to do with you, instead transfer that energy into something better and focus on being heavily inspired and striving to do and achieve better.

3. Clean up

Yes. I literally mean clean up after yourself. Similar to the lesson above, cleaning up after yourself is the best way to leave the past in the past and focus on what you need to achieve in the present in order to be happier in the future. By cleaning up any mess that you may have created, it leaves you with a perfectly clear workspace, and you know what they say. 'Clear Workspace = Clear Mind'. Well, I don't actually know who says that; you but catch my drift.

4. Don't take it personally

Every person whether they like it or not has an opinion, but some more than others feel that it is necessary to give to others, even when it is not asked for/needed. Sometimes these opinions aren't in the slightest bit helpful and may, unfortunately, bring us down. All I can say to the opinions, in particular, is to not take them personally. Everyone's experience here on Earth is different, so what better way to spend that time other than focusing on yourself (in the least selfish way possible) and ensuring that your time here is the best amount of time possible.

5. Everything is temporary

When I first heard these words, I literally had to stop for around 5 minutes to just take it in, and realise how big these 3 little words really are. There are periods of time when things are starting to look really shit and we feel as though they'll last forever when in reality it is far from the truth. The current task you're stuck with at work, your feelings post break-up with your SO, your unhappiness. They will all pass! I guarantee it, so in the meantime, all we can do is ride out the pain, because the future holds something of better value. All you need to do is go out there and get it.

And there we have it. All the little things that I've learned over the years that actually add up to be quite significant!

Millie xx

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SZA - Garden (Say It Like Dat)

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On Boxing Day, I took a trip down to London (check out my vlog here) in order to take my brother back home, and made a little stop off in some shops to see what was what, and I must say, I liked what I saw. I'm also pleased to say that the warm embrace of Boxing Day was clearly present and I was able to get some great bargains!

White Trainers | CLARKS
I believe every person needs a good pair of white trainers, one especially with high quality. One of the main things that I wanted to ensure, was that I had at least one timeless piece in my wardrobe, be it clothing or shoes, as they can be styled either up or down, during the day or the night or just for running errands and thanks to December 26th for existing, I was able to do so.

White Long Sleeve | UNIQLO
As the colder weathers are still underway, the art of layering is still heavily present and necessary. So I once again decided to invest in some investment pieces that I know I will be able to wear for Winters and Autumns to come. With this white long-sleeve, I can definitely see myself pairing it up with either a v-neck jumper and the warmest coat you can imagine.

Camel Flannel Shirt | UNIQLO
This shirt definitely spoke out to me in ways no shirt usually does. The awkward length of the sleeves, and the sudden stop of the buttons... Everything was just so perfectly pieced together, and the main aspect that topped it all off for me, was the unexpected use of flannel, a match made in heaven did you say?!

Black Fleece Turtleneck | UNIQLO
I already had this turtleneck in a lighter cream colour, but I couldn't help myself and decided to go back for some more, but only this time in a larger size and a darker colour. Despite being a turtleneck and providing more warmth than other items of clothing, the added fleece texture definitely makes this turtleneck one to keep around, and actually doesn't require you to play the Winter game of layering.

Coconut Hand Lotion | & OTHER STORIES
This hand lotion took me by surprise as it was purchase that made purely because it was close to the till. But I must say, it was definitely worth the price, and surprise. The smell is just damn right gorgeous, as the scent leaves you feeling refreshed and its super smooth, leaving the hands feeling like they're ready for anything.

Millie xx

question: Did you snag any Boxing Day deals?

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|| Handbag - H&M || MUMFORD Lace Up Shoes - ASOS || Heart Boobs Bodycon Top - Lazy Oaf ||

If got nothing to say, but just look how perfect these are!!

Millie xx

 || Denim Jacket - Topshop || Black Bralet - Topshop || Leggings - Primark || Converse - Foot Asylum ||

Tomorrow i'm leaving my house, to head to my school, to then head to Wales for Dol-Y-Moch..Even though i went with my primary school I'm so so excited :) Okay moving on to my outfit.

I decided to wear this outfit and show some skin, just purely because the sun was out, for like the first time this year! This look is kind of typical, but then again sometimes basic is good. This is actually like the second time i've worn this denim jacket, i bought it in Topshop's christmas sale and i didn't realise it was a size 6 (so it was a bit tight) but i plan on wearing it more often to loosen it a bit. The first time i saw my bralet on Topshop's website i just said to myself "I WANT IT" so the next time i went to town i bought it, (i also got it in orange). The leggings i bought from Primark weren't mentioned in my Primark Pull post, cause i bought them before the post in Oxford Streets Primark for just £3!!

I love all of the items mentioned in the post and so i thought they'd all go together and *BANG* what do you  know they did!! So when i go on my school trip i won't be able to post anything, but hopefully i'll have some pictures from my trip!! Laters.

What have you bought recently?? 

Millie xx

Hey Guys! I would just like to give everyone a warm welcome to my blog, I hope that everyone and me like(s) it!! I was thinking about introducing myself, and then get cracking onto the fashion side of me, so first of all I'd like to do a little 10 things about me

|| 1 Joni High waisted Jeans - Topshop || 2 Gold Tone Cross Ring - River Island  || 3 Applique M Sweat - Topshop || 4 Bandana Skirt - Lazy Oaf || 5 Light Denim Acid Runner Shorts - Topshop || 6 - Metallic Sweat - Topshop || 7 OFWGKTA Beanie - Ebay || 8 Mesh Crop Vest - Topshop ||

I'm in love with the Appilque M Sweat from Topshop, obviously because my name begins with an 'M' and I love the shade of orangey red on the sleeves. I've wanted some high waisted jeans for a long time now so them being No.1 on my list was a definite. The 'OFWGKTA' beanie was a definite, because I love their logo and I love the group. I always did want a cross ring, but then crosses blew up and I didn't want to seem like a sheep and wear everything everyone else was wearing so I waited a while, now that they've died down I'm going to purchase it... Now to the shorts, I'm in love with these shorts, I always have been and I always will be, because they remind me of america (I'm in love with america). I'm not going to talk about everything cause I don't want to bore anybody.

So, I hope to be posting more stuff throughout March, and hopefully I wont give up, Laters.

Millie xx